I got bombed on Sept. 2014. I can remember the date clearly that he gave me the speech of 「I love you but I'm not in love with you」「I want to move out in searching myself」the two speeches and something that he told me prior are the clues I'm looking for knowledge of midlife crisis. I also remember he was cold and distant for 12-18 months before I got bombed, he mentioned he enjoys working with the young people, he loves to be around by young people, he was interested in shopping outfit that is not suiting...
Want to give myself a warm hug, how hard it was to let go of him, he blamed me for everything, he threatened me he is moving out, he pushes for divorce for a year. We bump into each other when he was dating the other woman.
I really appreciate the information on this forum, thank you all soooooooo much for sharing and the encouragement !
