I'm so angry at WH tonight. Not sure if I should confront or save it!! We went to a weird al concert tonight all four of us, it had been planned for four months and pre BD. S18 drove us into the city and I watch WH text and sext others most of the way in and some during the concert!! Other than him being an a$$, is this part of his replay and I just accept it's him doing what he has to do?? To confront would set us back on the progress made so far. He would again be more ashamed and guilty and once again I would not be seen as a viable partner but the hitch that ruined the night. Yes, I could confront, but not while kids are with us. Is this something I just note, document and live with until he's ready to talk? Do I bring up at our next weekly meeting?? I'm too angry and hurt by this and his only comment to me tonight was how the massage messed up my hair. I was hurt and angry with that too. Even if I should confront I cannot stay calm right now! What is good DB ing right now?
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
Other than him being an a$$, is this part of his replay and I just accept it's him doing what he has to do?? To confront would set us back on the progress made so far. He would again be more ashamed and guilty and once again I would not be seen as a viable partner but the hitch that ruined the night. Yes, I could confront, but not while kids are with us. Is this something I just note, document and live with until he's ready to talk? Do I bring up at our next weekly meeting?? I'm too angry and hurt by this and his only comment to me tonight was how the massage messed up my hair. I was hurt and angry with that too. Even if I should confront I cannot stay calm right now! 
