Snooping is really bad for you FG. Like albacore, I'll never forget the messages my W sent to OM about what they would do to each other and about me. Not pleasant to thank about at all.
Hell, if you want a prime example of why not to do it, check out my thread for the past 3 days. That all spiraled bc I knew she was lying and used knowledge I had from Snooping to call her on it. I set myself back bc of it and nothing good came from it.
Better to not snoop once you know there is an AP in the mix. That's when you DB and focus on you and the kids. Let her live in the mess she's creating, no need to know the gory details.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18