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Sorry to hear as I know its upsetting. But...maybe don't read into things too much about the OM. And if there truly is another OM, you are right....you deserve better. When I first suspected an EA/PA, I almost vomited. It made me sick and angry. She never came clean and still hasn't but I know what happened and one of the key things in a relationship is trust...without it...things fall apart. I became indifferent and disgusted actually..the guy is a dork :-)

Your WAW has broken that trust. And if it is true I would be mad too. But you will find out the truth whether today or tomorrow or whenever and it will hurt ...but you will get past it.

Continue to stand up for yoruself. If she continues to try to break the agreement with taking care of your children, document it and move on. OR take advantage of spending more time with the kids, snatch that time up, and don't look back! My STBX before our custody agreement spent more time worrying about her GAL'ing than our D7.......it is starting to show up now in how my daughter is perceving things....strangely enough! They know...they are smarter than we think!

Some wake up...it seems from reading thru all these stories. Some don't....
If your WAW doesn't it is her loss.


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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....