Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #2]

[albac]

Gump,

I have been there. Do not snoop if you can find the strength not to.

I thought about it for a while and wasn't really snooping more like just looking at what was in front of me but I found out who the OM was. I know his name I know what he looks like and you know what? That is burnt in my brain and I see it and think about it EVERYDAY you do NOT want that!!

It was the worst thing I ever did. The less you know the better because the odds are in time it will be done and he will be gone.

The other thing is I don't even care about OM I didn't need to know who he was or what he looked like because if not him it would be someone else. My W wants him it's her that is the problem not him. I imagine he will be gone within months and she will be alone. But either way not my monkeys not my circus I can only work on my life and hope she works out hers.

Stay strong.