@Natus, For the last 3 months, it has been this way. But not sure if she will try to get custody after she files for D. But I have a back up plan and a good lawyer if she does. I have been documenting every time they are with me and how many times they are with her. Usually only two days out of the week with her. And even then, my daughters don't want to stay with her.
This past Saturday, my oldest daughter called me crying to pick her up. I told her that her mom wouldn't like that and to please spend it with her mother. My daughter said that her mother doesn't care. And I hear her mother say in the background if she wants to go then pick her up. That literally broke my heart. But I put my foot down and told her that she will have to get use to this arrangement. I cried after I hanged up. Not sure if I will do it again. This will make it the second time that my daughter wants me to pick her up. She said it doesn't feel like home and mommy is always talking to someone on the phone.
Me: 42 Her: 39 Kids: 2 ILYBNILWY: 5/17/2016 D-Day: 5/17/2016 Verified OM: 5/17/2016 Verified she told OM ILY: 5/21/2016 Moved Out: 5/19/2016