Very close to giving up

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Yup she asked for open marriage when denying any A.

Thank you. My feeling was to set the package on fire or throw it in the river, along with other stuff.

Ww has always been super strong willed and we had plenty of problems throughout our marriage(criticism, sex, division of labor) and have gone to counseling before but we always agreed it was bad and ineffective. Our current counsellors are better. We agree that we work together well on big things but not on little ones. One of our best periods was when we were dealing with infertility, IVF, pregnancy, and my losing and finding a new job.

Coaching has emphasized connection and being friends. Not bad stuff but I have a bigger problem and have been through too much abuse. She is not really looking to connect. We were given an exercise in mc that she always is too busy to do. She just wants to cake eat.

I'll add my signature soon.