I would have taken a fcking hammer to the package from OM. Probably the wrong thing to do. I don't know.
Sorry about your situation, but glad you found us.
What have you learned from the coaching sessions? It seems the advice you get from coaching don't always line up w/ the advice you get here in the forum.
What's your W's overall personality like? (Before all this....) Having an affair blows but ... it's good that she's willing to work on reconnecting. Some (i.e., me) don't even get that much from a WW.
What does it mean that your W "requested OM?" She asked to, basically, have an open marriage?
p.s. Please put your background in your signature ("My Profile" -> "Edit Profile")
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final