Episode 3 - The Divorce Awakens

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qt,

You are right that you need to live your life and let go.
I am going out on a limb here and saying that jumping into dating before you are even through the D will only make matters worse for you.
Do you think if she catches wind of it that she will make it easy for you?
Big picture here. Meeting a momentary need of loneliness to run the risk of having your entire family pulled out from under you?


Not to mention that you indicated the OW for you is in a D herself?
C'mon now, I know you know that is a recipe for disaster.
What baggage is she carrying? Has she put in the tie to heal, or is she looking to meet a temporary need of loneliness ?

I'm gonna give you some straightforward advice and ask that you back away from the need to be dating so soon. You have a lot of healing to do my brother.

Again, you are a grown man that will make the decision that you need to.
I sincerely challenge you from the goodness in my heart to back up a minute. Detox completely from what you have been going through for such a short time and look forward to the future qt, and ask if he won't thank you for healing completely before jumping back in the game and suffering a more permanent injury because you were not in any condition to do return so soon.

You are a bright guy that is battling some severe emotion swings. you can't trust feelings. They move fast. you are on a normal roller coaster of them and making decisions in that mode typically does not turn out well.

I am praying for you. I hope it turns out well. I hope you are able to get to where you need to to live life and move on my friend.
Be well today.