Do you guys really think I have any hope in h3ll with my wife? She basically told me to my face that it's over. And she made it abundantly clear she does not care how much pain I'm going through right now, she wants nothing to do with me. In the marriage, I made a lot of mistakes, and it was due to my lying that this divorce started. But - she is the one who gave up on me, who is causing this trauma to my family. She's the one who has been so selfish and uncaring and downright vindictive in the divorce? I'm supposed to wallow in my pain in the remote chance she will take me back? I deserve to be happy, I've suffered so much already.
Also - a few things. Nothing may come of this new woman. Or, we end up dating but I'm not going to flaunt the new relationship or introduce my children to her or post pics of her on FB. Not that my wife would notice or care anyway. Right now, I feel like I need to let my wife go and live my life.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16