Great points made about your current situation and family and there are at least a thousand more.
But do not head down this path. Your feelings are all over the place and very little good can come of this. Ego is in the way here and needs you are looking to meet are not met this way.
There is a reason that the divorce rate is way higher for second marriages than the first.
You are a grown man and will make the final decision here, but brother, my friend, you will be thankful down the road if you heed this advice.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
