qt4,

I want to be honest with you because I care, don't take it as a negative criticism.
You have by far the best situation here in my opinion:
1. You are still able to talk to your wife, she didn't give you a restraining order.
2. You can see your kids periodically and probably you will get shared custody.
3. You have a good job
4. Your wife doesn't look like she has found another man.

Your chances of reconciling are very high and there is a lot of hope in my opinion if you take the high road, and what do you do?
You are dating women from Tinder!!!
Do you know what this is going to do when your wife finds out?
1. She will want sole custody of the kids
2. It will kill any chances for reconciliation for a long time
3. Your wife will drag you to court for every little thing draining you and herself financially.
Is that what you want? Cmon!

Last edited by Cadet; 08/18/16 12:54 PM. Reason: edit