So I was thinking of this place and all of you over the weekend and how far I have come. Thought I would stop in and give an update!!

Not a whole lot has changed. My kids just came home from their summer visit with their mom. D13 was not happy!! Too many lies told by her mom. Too much of her summer wasted doing nothing. Too much rubbing her new love life in D13 face. Don't think next year she will be going as long. S8 was fine except he missed his Dad. But his mom pretty much spoiled him. She knows he is young and can be bought. EXW knows D13 knows the truth of what she did and can not be bought.

I am beginning to recover financially. Have a few more bills to catch up on that ExW ignored. But my credit is improving and I like the feeling of having everything paid on time and good credit. I was able to get a couple credit cards to help build my credit faster. It has really paid off. EXW really did a number on my finances!! I could say that I feel sorry for the guy she is with now and what she is going to do to his finances, but I can not tell a lie!!

I spent the summer playing a ton of golf. Working on my social life. Working around the house. Been doing pretty good so far!! smile


Me:44
EXW 44
Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
"It works if you work it!"