Hi All,

Haven't been posting on my own sitch for a few days.

H called me 4 times yesterday....leaving messages each time to call back. I was quite busy with work and dinner plans, that I didn't get back to him until later last night. I could tell on his last VM, he was getting frustrated at my lack of response... ...too bad...so sad!

I was cheerful when we talked. I thought he was out of town still....but made a comment about being here. I said, "oh, aren't you still on your vac?" He said, "no I had to cut it short....work keeps getting in the way." I said, "Oh that's too bad, I knew you were hoping to get away for a while." He hemmed and hawed.

Then we went on to talk about the taxes, etc. He kept asking if he needed to sign anything else. I said, "no you signed everything we needed a few weeks ago." "oh..ok"

He asked about my travel plans to see old college friends in CA this week, then mentioned he was headed to CA today, too for work. I said, "Oh I'll wave at you in the air" He asked specifics about my flight, airports etc...we will be travelling to different locations. (oh well?!?!)

He said, "let's get together and talk when you get back.' I said, that would be fine. He then asked if I cared if he came to our house this week-end....he wants to go to nearby driving range. (There are plenty of public driving ranges closer to him in the city??) I said, "fine with me....it's your home, too." Then he seemed to want to small talk some more about weather, kids, dog....I joked around a bit and made him laugh. I asked him about using his mileage from work for a personal trip for me this summer with my friends to Italy. He was fine with that....( )...I was surprised, cuz in the past he always called them HIS miles for HIS personal travel. Yeah....I might go on a great trip this June!!!

Well, that's all....I felt really good about the conv...thought I was upbeat, cheerful...DBed...cuz I asked him NO personal questions. I slept much better last night and am now looking forward to my time with college friends for this long week-end.

Gotta keep on keepin on!

Mooka