Thank you Job, Bttrfly , HaWho and Gwen. xxx thank you so much for the support
update on my foot/. Its healing extremely fast and I should be BOOT free in a week or so. I am disappointed that I wont be able to run the 6K Xmen race this year. It's next week. Better to heal properly and race another day.
As for replying to my EX.. I did. a day later. Her calling me sick got to me. I know , I know. let it roll off you.
I needed to express my thoughts on the subject. I said it as politely as possible. " i'm sick ? I guess it was I would abandoned my kids and putting OM first instead of caring for the girls in their time of need. Separation is traumatic and a life changing event.
You did this and you and you alone are to blame.
I took care of and am still taking care of them as I did since the day they were born. I am raining them the way we planed.
If me doing that is crazy in your la la land.. well I must be the looniest, wackiest and craziest one of the bunch.
don't ever call me crazy of sick again. Get help or better advise."
I left it at that and no response. Some truth arrows and what do I have to lose. Nada.
X-SIL did message me (first time in 7 months). Saying she had something to tell me later that night and she was so happy I am with the girls and keeping them stable. Loves me for the man I am (her own father bailed on her and my Ex when their mom went MLC.)
That night .. no call, no text , no message. My worst fear is ex-FIL has passed on. He is suffering from terminal cancer. We haven't seen him since last fall. The girls were so upset seeing him sick and angry at his own daughter because she is repeating history. I haven't called him since Xmas.. and they never reached out to me after that.
i'm thinking I should. will talk it over with the girls.
hope everyone is well
Irish
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015