Mooka,

I too have gotten lots of advice from your thread too. It is so nice of Wiley and others to keep us in check.

Looks like both of us need a weekend away without our S's knowing the details. Make them wonder alittle. Too bad I am in NC or we could do it together!!

God has blessed you with wonderful kids which is so teriffic!!

I get lots of thoughts too about how "great" things could be, should be etc.. Then I "wake up" and realize their not.

I am going to read the book "Sacred Marriage." It's about M making you into what God wants you to be and not about being "Happy." I thought that can apply to all of us.

Happy Easter!

nik