Update...
I just found out that the OW's H and S are involved in the "business". So it is just me that my H doesn't want involved. Not sure what to make of that.


H: 48
W: 41
M: 12
D: 10
1st DB: 3/15/16
2nd DB/S: 4/2/16 - H moved out of bedroom
False Reconciliation: 7/17/16 - H moved back into bedroom