Update... I just found out that the OW's H and S are involved in the "business". So it is just me that my H doesn't want involved. Not sure what to make of that.
H: 48 W: 41 M: 12 D: 10 1st DB: 3/15/16 2nd DB/S: 4/2/16 - H moved out of bedroom False Reconciliation: 7/17/16 - H moved back into bedroom