Sandi2, Thank you for these rules. I have already been trying to do a lot of them, but this list is affirmation that I am doing the right thing. Sometimes it is hard to do these things when you don't see immediate results. Especially #24. I go through times when I just feel like ending it and allowing it to be over so I can start to heal and then find someone who will truly appreciate me and not make me feel so worthless. I know that this isn't truly about me, but about him and what is going on inside, but it still doesn't make it hurt any less. Still working on distancing, I guess I am afraid that if I truly distance myself from H than it is over. And that is something that is hard to accept.
H: 48 W: 41 M: 12 D: 10 1st DB: 3/15/16 2nd DB/S: 4/2/16 - H moved out of bedroom False Reconciliation: 7/17/16 - H moved back into bedroom
