One other thing: big turnoff for me is when a guys profile is everything they DON'T want in a woman. When it is more negative than positive. I don't need to know your deal breakers right up front. Reframe it into positives. Again, I have no clue what your profile says, but maybe take another look.
Ditto. A list of "don't" is a huge turnoff. And some of the "don't's" are ridiculous anyway. The other day I saw a man's profile that said he wouldn't date anyone into juicing, vegan, or gluten-free. How controlling is that?
My eyes also glaze over at two things: 1) saying that he's not into drama and 2) that he wants a woman who is equally at home in jeans as a LBD. Every man says that. Every. One. Be different
Posting your profile here is a good idea, if you are brave enough, you'll get some good feedback from some great women.