-at this point I don't smoke, drink, or have any major addictions -I have recovered enough from my surgery that I can start doing light jogging -I have met some nice new friends in the past few weeks
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
-saw '9 Lives' with my kids, pretty good movie -grateful the situation with my auto accident is resolved or in process of being resolved now -Able to jog longer distances this week
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
-- we're getting rain today that we really need -- my children are healthy and settling into their new school years -- I'm in the best shape I've been in since I was 18 (27 years ago)
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
A quick question for those of ye tuned into the gratitude attitude!. I wanted to bring mine a step further and actually send people thank you cards.
But three people on my list are W and her parents. For those who have not read my thread, I am still with W but R is minimal and we are glorified roommates with kids.
My q is is this a good idea? I don't want it to be viewed by W for anything more or less than what it is, me saying thank you. I can decide about W myself, but am unsure about her parents. I have reason to thank them.
To clarify I intend sending 52 cards in total over the space of a year.I am unsure of how to explain to w, why I am doing this. Most of ye will understand the benefits of being grateful and appreciating life.
Even in writing this I realised that I need to do what I want to do. But instead of erasing I'll leave it out there if anyone wants to comment.
Thanks
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
-I am thankful for the 18 years that I was married -I am thankful for the beautiful children that we created together, and the memories that we shared before them, and during them growing up -I am thankful for the opportunity that my Ex gave to me, which helped me grow into the person that I never envisioned that I could be.. -I am thankful for the friends that I have met through this process. Y'all are wonderful, and I appreciate ya everyday -I am thankful for finding love again, with a wonderful Woman that challenges me, supports me, and loves me almost unconditionally -I am thankful that I am smart enough to know what those conditions are : )
