My goal is to focus on me and do what's right for me.

If that leads to R, okay and if not okay.

Right now, I cannot sit around and wait for my W to get her stuff together. And I know you aren't waiting your making yourself a better person and GAL and everything else and unfortunately for W while I was GAL I meet someone that I like to spend time with.

At this moment does my having this other relationship bring us closer? No.

W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16