Have to keep making the changes

[ATPeace]

Ginger1

The advice is spot on and I have been given great advice for many months

What I am doing is not working I am not even sure if it is helping it may or may not be slowing down the process but it is not making things better.

I almost feel like i should sit her down and have a talk with her i want to be able to reason with her but as I know this does not help

So develope a life for myself outside of my W and my family do the things that I want to do ....this was one the things that I was doing through the marriage that got me to this position so.....why does this feel the wrong thing to do ?

Ghost