Albac - 7 months in. Life goes on.

[Surfer]

You are doing absolutely fine.

You won't loose your mind, don't worry. I know how it feels though and you do get through this stage. Not to say it is not very tricky. Just try and keep your distance emotionally and physically and do things that make you happy.

Got to get to a stage when you 'realise' you want your old S back. Not this new alien. Need to try to detach from the alien. You still love your S - just you don't want the alien.

Surfer.