MMM, just went through the "stuff" situation. Sorry to hear you are there too. I DBed hard, let him come take all of his stuff. Was strong on the surface, stoic, but inside it nearly killed me, to see him take all of his stuff. Cleave everything so neatly and quickly over the period of a few days. I find bits here and there and have made a pile for him, for whenever, doesn't matter. My IC says it's just stuff, that's not what's the problem, the problem is within him. She waves her hands when I agonize about the stuff. Me too, no ring as of this week. I think we need to be patient and give this time. I know I am impatient and do not want to live in this grey area. But, for now, it's just the way it is.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016
