hi MMM1919. I too was committed. After being continuosly shot down for almost half a year i'm not anymore but that nots whats driving it.
Another thing is i dont think or want to get back together, i just cant. I cant let her do that to me again. Even if she completely 180 and started loving me for reals i dont think ill be capable to opening up to her again and knowing her she'll find another.
Like you im starting to notice other women but i wont be making moves for awhile.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.