I think you are spot on. I am not jealous or angry of OM because he does not know my W yet and I believe what ever it is they have will die on its own in short time, however what I don't know is if that will bring her my way and she realizes the loss or she moves to someone else and tries again.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
