My Wife Walked Out 5

[Coconut]

I SO BADLY want to tell her good, church going Christian friends that their good friend is a slut. WITH ZERO GUILT OR REMORSE. SO BADLY. She doesn't want to "involve" them so they can keep thinking she's a good but "confused" woman in a "tough spot" and keep her reputation, as CT noted. I just can't do that to my boy, and logically I know I shouldn't before any D were to happen.

Time to feel real consequences.

Wow, this post is so me.. i will just warn you of this, once you go down the road of outing A and murdering WW reputation, I don't think there is much chance of reconciliation... Although the immediate affects do satisfy the need for revenge, it is very short lived and in the grand scheme of things doesn't help you heal..

I think if you find yourself needing to let it out and let her have it, then say it directly to her. It will set you way back in the DB journey, but it doesn't do permanent damage to possible reconciliation... But again, the gratification is short lived and when the WW doesn't change anything in the long run, even though you let her know how you feel about what she's doing, you start to build anger/resentment again. I don't regret letting my WW have a piece of my mind, but I also don't think it did anything to help me..