I am so effing pissed off at this lying hoebag. I've kept my cool though via text, as she was asking about dropping his blanket off. I just said please leave it in a plastic bag at the front door, and I've left some more of your stuff outside (coats, misc clothing and a box of tampons). She asked if she could say hello, and I said we're about to take a nap.

Ironically, she then said school has requested a "family pic" due Tuesday. Should I pick one of the three of us? Maybe holding hands or on the bridge? I said, is that really realistic? We're family for about 5 minutes a week. She responded we're both his parents, but I'll send in a pic of me/him. I said I'll send in a pic. Parents and Family are completely different things, and I don't wish to play family. "Thx for being honest."

I asked her to leave my key in the mailbox, but she said she already left. "Is this it? I'll give it to you tomorrow when I drop him off." I said ok have a nice day. She said y'all too. She then said, just text me after he goes down tonight. I haven't responded......

Going minimal contact begins. No explanatory letters, no worries about interrogations. I'm worried I might get pissed off at a question, but my answer to giving back the key is "After you went through my house, I thought it was the best solution." If she asks if we have anything to talk about I'm again shutting it down with a "No, nothing's changed since the other day." If she gets angry, at any time, I'll ask her to say goodbye to S and please go.

I SO BADLY want to tell her good, church going Christian friends that their good friend is a slut. WITH ZERO GUILT OR REMORSE. SO BADLY. She doesn't want to "involve" them so they can keep thinking she's a good but "confused" woman in a "tough spot" and keep her reputation, as CT noted. I just can't do that to my boy, and logically I know I shouldn't before any D were to happen.

Time to feel real consequences.

You know what's really funny? After S told me Trailer Trash was at the pool with Mommy, she had asked about his back and my response was "I put a lot of aloe on him, he's fine. And he's been talking a lot." Lolz.


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.