What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Zues126]

I say the man should be allowed to be angry. Not saying its right or he handled it well or even correctly but i sympathise and understand that anger all to well.

Ofcourse if it becomes a re-occurring theme and is affecting his relationship with son and or other people then okay maybe its time to get some anger management.

I feel this way too. Frankly the only thing I regret post BD is not doing what Coconut has done. I handled myself like a gentleman from start to finish. I really wish on many days that I had put OM in the hospital and told XW off with words she'd never be able to forget. OK, I don't exactly regret it, but I don't blame anyone for doing this either. Not at all.