I say the man should be allowed to be angry. Not saying its right or he handled it well or even correctly but i sympathise and understand that anger all to well.
Ofcourse if it becomes a re-occurring theme and is affecting his relationship with son and or other people then okay maybe its time to get some anger management.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.