I agree facebook could be evil. I'm glad I was separated the year it came out, lol.
I hate to break it to you, but she probably blocked you. And if she deactivated her account, those pics come back when it's reactivated. And if you are tagged, they aren't gone.
She's pissed, expect some pissy reactions. Doesn't mean you change your course. She just upset things aren't going exactly the way she wants.
You take your own pics, they are your own memories made with your S.