Moving out seems like a really good move. It's nice to see you taking steps to make that happen.

I hope, for your sake and the sake of any future partners, that you are in counseling to address your anger issues and your need to control your partner.

Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16