Hey Huddy, I think the thing is to let go of where she may be at. Who knows if she is going through MLC or a WAS or whatever. If you can let go of your need to know and purely focus on where you are at, that would be best.

Really, once the focus is truly on you, the only decision is do I continue to stand...

I know this may not be what you want to hear, but that's my humble opinion - and I do think you are generally doing well my friend....but try to just let her be without trying to look at where she may be at etc...

Hope you are having a lovely weekend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus