I will have to read up on your story. I try to avoid even thinking about time frames like 9-12 months. I work 1 day at a time and that's all I can do.
One thing I will add and this is just my thoughts, if my W moved in with someone else that's a massive game over deal breaker for me. I am NC as much as I can at the moment but if she came and said she was moving in with someone I'm 100% NC until it's over.
We have been push overs for so long Hawker they have zero respect for us. Time for that tough love.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16