My guess is everyone is different and it depends how harsh the change is from what they had to what they have now. In my W's case she had it very good and that's not just my biased opinion I let her do whatever she wanted and Have whatever she wanted but it wasn't enough obviously.
And your W is much like mine from what I have read. Nothing was ever good enough and they have an unrealistic view of what a R should be and a view that every day should be super fun happy time in fairy land. This is why they have to figure out, that this place is an oasis and for all involved the sooner the better.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
