What should I be doing (Working toward D 9)

[Coconut]

Cadet, thanks for adding the links, service was spotty at best in the mountains but I didn't want to be on electronics anyway...

So had a great work, I only text WW once to tell her when we arrived, and she only text me two or three times the first two days, then I just told son to make sure he text her at least once a day and didn't think about it again. She only came up twice during conversation with father in law, and that was primarily logistical stuff, house, furniture, etc...

I really didn't think about sitch much when gone, but my how things changed once I got back.. A friend who is a friend of hers on Facebook asked me if A was ongoing when we took my nieces to the fire station, I said yes I found out afterwards that it was and why do you ask, and they told me she put pic of my nieces on the fire truck with her as her Facebook picture... Well hello anger, it's been awhile. I text her and told her I'd like her to take that pic down, she shouldn't of brought them there knowing what was going on, and it is a slap in the face to me to put that pic up... She said no... Well hello rage, I thought we were done.

I laid into her, said every mean thing I could think of, and then found some more to say... And started packing my stuff. Gave her a list of valuable marital property that we've accumulated and asked her to identify what she wants so we can start sorting through so I know what I need to pack. She asked why, am I planning on leaving before September, I told her it was likely and am still waiting for the list back.

I've got most of my stuff packed already, except for the garage, but that's gonna be tough to go through and sort out. My plan is to get a storage room and start bringing stuff there, just keeping the stuff I use regularly out until I get my own place. And having a garage sale for most of the stuff in there that is really only needed if you own a home.