Just a thought, but how about boxing up all of her stuff and give her a box each time she drops off son? I would just tell her that I know it's tough not to have your things when you need them..
As for the tattoo, I agree that it would represent a bad time, wether things work out between you two or not... Wait until you feel the dawn of a new day, then decide.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
