Albac broken but pushing forward

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It's just that, as Cadet notes, SO MANY of us move on mentally before the 9-12mos elapses and when the W starts to show interest again (as long as we keep working) we've become the WAS.

Where exactly did Cadet say it takes 9 to 12 months for WAS/WW to show interest again?

I don't mean to get too hung up on a number, as I'm sure it varies greatly from one situation to another, but, it's still interesting to have some estimate...

Thanks.

I cant tell you where, but I know I read that same thing somewhere. Perhaps one of the initial HW posts.

albac - per your post, my S is almost 6 months of and I confronted A twice. I have wondered - is it 9 to 12 months since BD, or since S? No idea. Also, as I recall reading that 9-12 month thing, if I remember context correctly, it wasn't about the WAS noticing she is a disaster as much as a "you should" put in at least that amount of time before you expect to see anything.

I can't tell you either, I just remember finding it and thinking THAT'S A LONG TIME! Wonka said wait a year. I'm thinking it's 9-12 mos of DBing.