Such a long road ahead but sounds like we are all heading in the right direction. I am definitely seeing the signs with my W although it may not be her starting to miss me it could be just her starting to realize how much I did FOR her and she is struggling to keep control of her life.
Gump- I haven't read the 9-12 month thing anywhere but my with has been gone 7 months now. Up until she told me about OM and I was letting her do what she wanted she was like an obnoxious care free teenager. Since telling me of OM 3 weeks ago and me going NC she is the one killing me with kindness and has dropped the attitude big time. The tables have turned because she can see I'm getting on with life and day by day less afftected by her and day by day her life is becoming a mess.
To be clear I will not take her back with open arms as if this never happened.im not even sure I could take her back even if she was open to it. She has caused so much damage and it will take a long time to repair. I would need to be 100% sure she was all in and also that I am all in.
Start of a whole new world, I will try my best to enjoy the ride as I only get one go.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
