Hi RD, it sounds like you feel at peace with your chosen path and that is the main thing my friend. Not every D gets busted and sometimes we file for D ourselves. However, you have been there with me from almost the start of my sitch and that is a long time to stand for the M and ultimately decide to move on.

I have been grateful for your kind and loyal support - and will always remember that you were the person who sat with me (virtually) as I cried when I received D papers. I also admire that you have been the rock for your kids and you have given them love and stability at a time when their Mum hasn't been able to do so. These are the things that we look back on and feel glad and at peace with.

You and I will hopefully keep in touch outside of the forum....and are you sure we can't tempt you to join us in 'Surviving the Big D??'

Best wishes and big hugs to you my friend xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus