Cadet and anyone... Question, is it pursuing or R talking to ask for collaboration or question him when he brings up a topic? Is it ok during the convo only or can I bring up more questions later? He has revealed to me, questions he is having with his sexuality, stemming from the early incest. He has asked for my support and to walk this path of exploration with him. I thanked him for trusting me with the sharing and said I would. He said he does trust me and is thankful for me. He was like a lost boy who couldn't look at me as he spoke. He has revealed parts of his issues to me, addictions, sexual,EA and I feel his struggle. There's been no talk of separation or divorce in two months. I guess that is encouraging.
Seriously tho, I am more confused on what to do than ever!
I begin to wonder about, what if I detach emotionally too much and we lose the connection for good? So much pain. How do you stand it??
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again