Cadet, I know you are so right. It really does come thru layers of history. By the time I recognized I was living thru him he was well into first A. Then I kicked into fix it, nice girl mode ++. I let go of it while we were separated and then became dependent on him again thru the cancer treatments. So, no excuses here, I'm just recognizing how how hard it is to back off and not codepend. What I wouldn't give to redo the last 10-18 months!!
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
