Sandi2 is a god! My old friends NDY, Sotto, Wonka and RD helped me through the first 16 months, which I appreciate very much. I have done a lot of work on myself and feel I have applied sandi2's teaching's throughout. Don't get me wrong, I've had my backslides and depressive moments, but mentally, I am at a far better place than at the start.
As for doing things differently, that's why I've moved here. I've also moved here as I feel newbies reading 19 volumes of my woes and tribulations might get put off and I don't want that, because, generally, once you get the basics of DB'ing right, it is incredibly helpful in getting your mind back in shape and providing worthwhile support.
Personally, I don't think I should do anything to start any kind of R talks. I feel if W wants to come back, or make an effort, then she has to do the work. In the past, I would have gone to mush at the slightest thought of W wanting to talk to me, but that's not the case anymore. So, is anything different in application in MLC land?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
