Originally Posted By: bigybiz
SH:

Its a process to replace the negative with the positive as I focus my energies on A, B will become less prevalent.


This is indeed an action.

Originally Posted By: bigybiz
Nonetheless, I still obsess a little - include having steamy fantasies about us.

This also is an action.

These actions are in conflict and will delay your goal.

Similar to running 5 miles a day and then eating 5000 calories of sugary unhealthy food will delay progress.

I would say that this is the point sandi (pardon me sandi if I am speaking out of turn and mind reading your point here) and I are attempting to share with you.

You are getting it, and with some fine tuning of healthy behaviors and the focus on discontinuing of the unhealthy ones, you will be on your way and reach the goal in a more prompt time.

You got this. You have great momentum and progress. Keep at it .


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It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine