It was your W who used her own child as bait to get what she wanted..........which was to go to your house. Then she purposely informs you of how sad D looked b/c she wasn't going to see daddy. You don't know if D really did, or not. Your W intentionally used guilt to punish you. If you buy into the guilt and let your W do what she wants, then her manipulation worked.
WW's play two cards the most. Guilt and Contol.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
