Sandi2 I could not agree more. As you may see, I'm quite happy with the changes I've made in me. I'm thrilled with what I've accomplished, I have a massive "To Do" list which is personal, professional and home/family focused.
I'm guessing "letting go" will just happen one day. As I become more and more "happy" with who I am - it will be easier to leave her behind I guess. I know there is not a step by step guide.
Yes, she is still in my head - for now.
Hi bigy, Just a thought. "letting go" is not an event that "will just happen one day" it is an action that you must take and practice each day until you arrive to the healthy place.
Obsessing is a choice, not a random event. The thought or memory of her popping into your mind is a random event, but what you choose to do with the thought is 100% in your control.
You are what you think. There is much good material and knowledge around this. As a man thinketh. Great read and insight.
Keep on keeping on my friend. You can do it.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
