Hi n2hcke, I am sorry you find yourself here. I've just been reading your sich and I was confused about the OW. You say she is happily married so does that man she isn't aware that your H is in an EA with her and what do you think her H thinks of their relationship?

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')