No worries on the job front...and I'm far from wallowing. I'm going for jobs that pay 50 percent higher.
My lack of acting on outing my wife comes from the DB coaches I've talked to. One coach told me to not make waves until my wife came around. The other assured me that I needed to tread carefully now. So, these both contradict the general advice of this board. This brings me to another piece of advice that applies beyond this situation: if you're unsure of something, don't do it. Ticking my wife off right now could collapse what little marriage I have left. This also would contradict the concept that you cannot force someone to love you, stay with you. Instead you want to be the better choice...
So, you see there's a gap in approaches provided by the BD book and counselors vs this board...and since I'm not sure which approach is better, Im opting for the safe bet for the short term.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues
