Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2)

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Oops, above, I meant to say "I expect D to be the outcome."

JRuss -- being at 19 percentile in weight is awesome. You really kicked ass. Inspiring. But yeah, I've also looked in the mirror more often every since my W told me she's not attracted to me any more.

WW attitude towards children ... well I think this is where Sandi2's point comes into play. WW is in an immature, childish, rebellious stage, where she's doing stuff she KNOWS is wrong.

I think a WAS comes at this with a different heart -- more of a capitulation. She knows it's BAD for kids, but she feels she has no better option after a long, extended battle w/ a bad marriage.

In real life, I think W's have some mix of WW-ness and WAS-ness. Your W sounds to me like she's more WAS than WW.