It looks like quite a common theme that the WAS feels like the children "will be fine" in the incidence of a divorce. I think this just highlights the selfishness and illogical mind in all of this.

Like most things, this issue is mainly out of our control. But what is in our control is to surround those children with love and protect them the very best that we can through this. It absolutely breaks my heart when my 2 yo wakes in the night crying saying daddy's gone. But I want my child to see me as security and safety and someone that will always love and put their interests first.

Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16